People around me used to think that there are only two types of sexualities. One is heterosexuality and the other one is homosexuality before I told them that these two are not alone. Primarily, heterosexuality and homosexuality are the primary sexual orientations of human beings. However, there are some other types that can peep up in our early teenage years. Or later when we are adults.
Today, I’m going to talk about how many types of sexualities are there and obviously you are going to find out yours if you couldn’t figure it out yet.
Does Your Sexuality Matter?
It does to an extent somehow that your happiness depends on it. If you don’t know what your sexuality is, what types of people you get sexually attracted to, you’ll never know how to fulfill your sexual appetite. That’s why we, in our early teen years, start dating to find out who we are and what we like. It’s okay to start dating at a later age when you are totally happy with yourself. However, in that case, the chances are, you’ve already figured out your sexuality.
Whatever it is, it doesn’t change the person you are. Your sexuality is only related to your sexual and romantic preferences.
How Do You Find Out Your Sexuality?
Now, this one is a kinda tricky question especially if you are a teenager. I remember there was a girl in my 7th grade who used to fancy girls sexually. I couldn’t quite figure out what she meant by that because I was always into boys. Later when I grew up and talked a lot about sex with my peers and different groups of people, and read and watched movies, I realized that bisexuality wasn’t even in her brain.
She was always into girls and it fucking showed every time I talked to her. But the thing is, she had a boyfriend. So, she didn’t even know what she was doing.
So if you are experiencing something similar, I want you to take a deep breath and explore yourself. Now, Punam, how to do that? 🤔
There are so many categories of porn out there including, lesbian, gay, threesome mff and mmf, and so on. Watch a whole lot of them because you know how fun it is.
But don’t get addicted like Don Jon.
And you will find out what porn category you like the most. If you like the videos where two girls licking each other out, you might be a lesbian.
Explore Through Dating Different People
This is another way of exploring your sexuality if you are open enough about it. Do you find a girl attractive who goes to the same school as you? Try her out. She may not know if she is a lesbian or not but if you don’t throw your shot, you might never know.
Also, be sure to subtle about it and not completely open. Remember, you don’t already know about your sexuality so there is nothing to hide. There are so many other sexualities types than being totally lesbian or straight. We will get to that shortly but before we do, I want you to be patient with it and find out more about yourself apart from only your sexual orientation.
Talk to People
I know it sounds a bit scary but why don’t you try? You know, maybe you have some friends around who are homosexual and are confident about their sexual identity? If you talk with them about their relationships and sexual preferences, you may find out somethings that you really need to know. You don’t have to tell them right away about how you feel or what’s on your head. Just extract information from their feelings and you’ll get to learn about yours.
Types of Sexualities and Their Meanings
Now finally, here are the much-awaited types of sexualities list. Just have your eyes scan through this section to find out how many types of sexualities are there and which one is yours?
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To be honest with you, the sexualities list is quite long and there are more than 45 types of sexualities out there.
But you won’t be able to remember all of those terms so it’s better to only know the popular and simple ones.
Here it comes…
Types of Sexualities: Monosexual
People who are either heterosexual or homosexual, known as monosexual. You can either be attracted to a person of your opposite sex or a person of the same sex as yours.
Bisexual people confuse themselves at the beginning of finding their sexuality. Sometimes they think that they are in love with their best friend’s boyfriend and sometimes they think that they are in love with their bestfriend. If you get what I mean it’s completely okay because you are bisexual. It’s okay to turn yourself on while looking at boobs and a penis at the same time.
Guess what? Most girls tend to be bisexual by nature. Not me if you are wondering.
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Sexualities Types: Asexual
Asexual people are not horny like us. They don’t desire or get themselves involved in any type of sexual activity. They get to choose whether they want a relationship or not. And ultimately they decide whether or not they want to have sex. Yes, they exist and I respect these people.
Types of Sexualities: Pansexual
Pansexual people don’t care about your sexual orientation or gender, as long as you attract them emotionally or physically, they will sleep with you.
If you ever decide to have sex with a pansexual person, don’t forget to learn some sex tips from them.
Sapiosexual people tend to get attracted to people with immense intellect. Now those people can be of the same sex or opposite sex, it doesn’t matter. If you talk smart with them, there is a 96.5% chance they are getting horny by your words.
Now the person with intellect can be a guy or woman. This time it’s on you to figure out whether you are a sapiosexual or a homosexual.
Demisexual people think a lot before getting into action. If you are dating a guy for a while and trying to get into his pants but he’s not responding well, chances are he is demi. It means they need a strong emotional bond before committing to any kind of sexual activity. How cool is that!
Types of Sexualities: Autosexual
Many people you know can be autosexual. These people don’t need anyone else to turn themselves on. They can look at their own body and get horny af. I don’t blame them. They must be that sexy!
See here is what I think, figuring out your sexuality can be a long process but it doesn’t have to be that hard. If you are still looking for other types of sexualities, then look into this page. Or if you are looking for more posts like this, then don’t forget to subscribe to my email list.