Men tend to love anal sex more than women, but the same thing can be super pleasurable for the opposite gender when done right. Some people think that anal sex is taboo, that your anus was not designed for any sexual activity. However, what they don’t know is that anal sex has been around for centuries. Hence, it’s more common than you think. Wanting anal sex is super hot, but you should know about the best anal sex positions.
Along with educating yourself on how to prepare for anal sex, you should check out these 15 amazing sex positions. Last week, we talked about how to have anal sex, and today, the positions are our topic.
In case it’s not completely clear already, doggy style is not the only anal sex position. There are plenty of others, too, and if you are creative, you can even make your own damn anal sex positions. To help your sex life hot and amazing, I have sorted out these 10 fun anal sex positions for beginners. Explore the list below and try ’em all. After all, why not?
1- Lap Dance Anal Sex Position
A lap dance is perfect for both anal sex and vaginal sex. If you are new to anal, lap dance can be another easy position after doggy style. You can tell your partner with a penis to sit down on the edge of the bed or a chair (a table would do), and you are going to sit on his lap. Put his penis on your vagina and slid up and down on it.
You can go as deep as you find comfortable with one of these best anal sex positions. You can also use your hands as much as you like. Using hands will bring on intimacy even more. You are surely going to like it. But don’t do the whole anal thing sitting on this position only. Change it often.
2- Pile Driver
The first stated position, Lap Dance, gives you control of your body movement. But if you find it hot for your man to take control over your body instead, you can pull off the pile driver position nicely. You will have to have some flexibility and strength at the lower back to find this position comfortable.
The pile driver position involves lying on your back and let your man grab your legs. He will push your legs back to a point where they will be touching your head, making your anus and vaginal completely on display.
You can grab the bedsheet or pillows with your hands because you are allowed to do so. The rest depends on your guy as he will squat up and down on you and thrust himself in and out for anal sex to feel good.
3- The Posterior Plank
Sometimes..well, most of the time, uncomfortable sex positions lead to muscle pain. But not this one. The Posterior Plank is comfortable and lazy af one of the most pleasurable anal sex positions for beginners. If both of you are feeling lazy on a Tuesday evening but still in the mood for some spicy anal sex, try this one. Lie on your stomach; legs parted so that your partner with a penis can enter you from behind.
His arms will be resting on their elbows for balance. His balls will be slamming against your pussy as he fucks your other hole nicely. Moans and sweat make this one of the comfortable anal sex positions more intimate. You can also call it “lying doggy,” a lazy version of doggy style. To make one of the good anal sex positions better, add a vibrator to the play.
4- Good Anal Sex Positions: The Caboose
The caboose is an easy sex position for couples that also feels good while doing it anally. Even though the activity is related to your asshole, I find this position super romantic. You can look at each other, feel each other, staring into his eyes, and exchanging moans, all while letting him fuck your anus.
It’s like the spooning version of lapdance. You can let him sit on the bed or chair and back your body on his lap. His hands will be resting on either side of his back for balance. And you can do whatever you want with yours.
5- Lean on Me
Lean on Me can be a great advanced anal sex position if you find an object to support your body weight. It’s like the doggy style (doggy styles have many different approaches) but not really for beginners. You can find it easy at first glance, but it takes practice. What doesn’t? Especially, anal sex only gets better with practice. Anyway, the lean on me anal sex pose can be a good bathroom sex position.
You can lean against the wall or your toilet and let your guy hold your waist to thrust himself on you. As you can already feel, this pose lets your partner take control of your body. Thus, only recommended when you are with a trusted man.
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6- Baby, Back it Up
Another standing sex position on the list. Since your anus opening is full of rich nerve-endings, this not-so-deep anal sex pose can be a great feeling. You don’t need to go so deep and all. Instead, lie across the edge of your bed or a table and lean on one side with your ass facing his dick.
When he is entering himself on you, you can rotate your butt to regulate the pace and motion. If you want more depth, you can switch things up with a pillow by placing it under your side (at the side you are leaned against your partner.)
Also read: How does anal sex feel like?
7- Reverse Cowgirl
Reverse cowgirl is a good and advanced sex position for both the P in V and P in A method. And if you don’t like the reverse one, you can start with the plain “cowgirl” position. Although, most beginners prefer the reverse one because their cum face is not visible.
You will also have control of his inch and thrusting, and his balls can also stimulate your clitoris. Tell him to lie down on his back, and you can sit backward on his dick. Your bareback will be visible to him, and he can reach out to your clits if you want.
8- The High Chair Position
To be honest, most of you haven’t already imagined the high-chair position, have you? One of the most different anal sex positions needs a chair, of course, and you will have to sit down on it at a position where your ass will be accessible to his dick.
Your man can penetrate you standing behind you or squatting or kneeling over your back. He should grab your waist or shoulders to balance his weight while he is thrusting you. The higher the chair is, the more suitable it will be to fuck.
9- Comfortable Anal Sex Positions: Face to Face
I have talked about this position before, but not in the anal sex context. People find it hard to anal fuck in a position from where they will be actually facing each other. But the face-to-face position is the right one you were looking for.
To do this, your man should sit down with his hands placed on the bed, balancing his weight. On the other hand, you will be sitting on his lap and putting your hands behind you. Please note that you will have to do the most work in this pose as your husband will have a hard time fucking.
When everything is being tried and loved, you can go back to your old sex position, missionary. Just this time, tell him to do the wrong hole since that’s the right thing to do.
References: https://badgirlsbible.com/anal-sex-positions, https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/g19686611/anal-sex-positions/, https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/g5025/anal-sex-positions/.
These are not the only best anal sex positions, and you can find many others on the internet. But if you find them, make sure to try them all. And also, wait for me to give you some more hot-ass sexy anal sex tips on the next post.
Update: I have posted a new article about to how to make anal sex better. Read it from this link.