When you think about anal sex, one thing must come to your mind: is anal orgasm real? Since it is easy and thrilling to have an orgasm through vaginal sex, anal orgasm is a real question. And if the sensation is real, then not only people with a vagina but also everyone can have it. It is what makes anal sex awesome.
Regardless of your gender, anal sex is for everyone. And if there is an orgasm included, then it is a bonus point. While there is clitoral orgasm, g-spot orgasm, anal orgasm in men and women is also a thing. Today, we will learn some anal orgasm tips in this post.
What is Anal Orgasm?
I have told in my other articles before that our anus is full of nerve-endings. So, it is very easy to stimulate that area. When you talk about anal sex vs vaginal sex, you must mention that both intercourses include orgasms. But while it is very easy to have one through oral and penetrative sex, it is not that easy for anal sex.
Still, your anus can give you a mind-blowing orgasm if a penis or dildo owner can stimulate it well. Your anus has nerves that are connected to the clitoris. You might have noticed before that when you have a clitoral orgasm, the nerve and skin around your anus quivers.
The nerve that connects your clit and anus is the pudendal nerve. It is connected to your vulva too. So, anagasm feels like a clitoral orgasm to some extent.
But that is not only for women. People with a penis can also have an anagasm. The super-sensitive prostate gland is connected to your penis and anus, which can give you a heavenly orgasm.
First Anal orgasm for Male
Men can have anal stimulation and climax, which is also known as Prostate Orgasm. The prostate gland brings fluid to the semen, and when it is stimulated, it can give you an orgasm. It looks like a walnut and stays around the urethra or the tube through the way your urine comes out. More precisely, it is situated near the rectum between the penis and bladder.
The prostate gland is like a g-spot in men. Except for this time, it is ‘p’, so, it is really a P-spot. You can insert your fingers or an anal sex toy in your man’s anus to stimulate the inside. And it will give him an intense anagasm. But as an anal sex tip, you should trim your nails and use lubes before inserting your fingers.
How to Have Anal Orgasm?
You have anagasm the same way you get other types of orgasms—by pushing an object inside a private opening. You can use sex toys, fingers, penis or a penis-like object inside the anus to stimulate the area. But while you are doing so, don’t forget to take anal sex safety measures.
Have a look at the most vital anal sex tips to know How to Make Anal Sex Better and get an orgasm.
Relax and communicate: You don’t have to do it if you don’t want to. You don’t need to be the bottom guy or someone who allows anal penetration, and it’s perfectly okay. But if you agree to do this, make sure to clear up your boundaries with your partner. Don’t sweat it up. Instead, take deep breaths and talk it out with your partner. Tell him what you want and don’t want from anal sex. Orgasm, for example.
Be comfortable: Anal sex still requires a lot of foreplay, for your anus won’t allow outside objects to enter your body if you are not relaxed. Once you talk about anal sex and your expectations and boundaries to your partner, it’s time to consider your safety and health. Anal sex feels good, but it may not be for everyone.
Use different techniques: Fingers are the first way to start. Then move in to butt plugs, and finally, dildo or penis if you are comfortable with it. Like other sex techniques, anal sex needs practice too, and time. So, take all your chances and the time you need to make it feel better.
Don’t forget lubes: Unlike the vagina, your anus can’t produce fluids on its own. So, to make things smooth so that it doesn’t hurt or tear your skin, you need lubes. A lot of them, actually, and only then you can get a satisfactory orgasm.
Experiment with different anal sex positions: Apart from doggy, there are many other anal sex positions. And you should try each one of them to know which one feels the best and give you an anal orgasm.
One thing I always tell my readers is ‘safety first.’ You have decided to have anal sex, but now what? You just go ahead and have it? That’s not how it should work. It’s a good thing that you are educating yourself by reading my articles. And now it’s the time to apply them to your sex life.
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